FAQs

  • How long do I have access to the course material?

    For as long as the program exists (which I plan on being for a very, very long time). Additionally, you will have access to any updates or revisions made as time goes on.

  • Does my husband need to be involved?

    This program is specifically designed for women to complete on their own although some decide to share the videos with their husbands who find it very helpful. As this is a program about sex (which involves your husband too!), there are parts of the program where you invite him to join you. In addition, I provide short, summary videos for your husband in each week so you don’t have to try and explain everything to him.

  • Do you have a refund policy?

    No. Due to the nature of this program, we do not have a refund policy. Only invest in this course if you are willing to put in the effort and time.

Course Curriculum

  • 1

    Start Here!

    • Welcome to WIM!

    • Community Agreement

    • Calendar

  • 2

    First Path: Cultivate Compassion

    • Introduction

    • Societal Messages of Female Sexuality

    • Porn & Media Messages

    • Generational & Personal Trauma

    • How Men Have Been Affected

    • Summary & Action Steps

    • Path 1 Workbook

    • Path 1 Video Transcript

  • 3

    Second Path: Establish Safety

    • Introduction

    • Boundaries In Your Marriage

    • Equity In Your Marriage

    • Attachment In Your Marriage

    • The Reset

    • Summary & Action Steps

    • Path 2 Workbook

    • Path 2 Video Transcript

    • Resource: Talking With Your Husband About The Reset

  • 4

    Third Path: Trust Your Intuition

    • Introduction

    • Putting Aside the "Shoulds" of Sex

    • What About My Husband's Needs?

    • How To Listen & Trust Your Intuition

    • Summary & Action Steps

    • Path 3 Workbook

    • Path 3 Video Transcript

  • 5

    Fourth Path: Prioritize Your Pleasure

    • Introduction

    • The Pleasure Potential of Life

    • Barriers to Experiencing Pleasure

    • Three Ways to Experience Pleasure

    • Pleasure With Your Husband’s Body

    • Summary & Action Steps

    • Path 4 Workbook

    • Path 4 Video Transcript

  • 6

    Fifth Path: Connect With Your Body

    • Introduction

    • Why We're Disconnected

    • Becoming Friends With Your Body

    • Your Beautiful Vulva

    • The Meet-Up

    • Summary & Action Steps

    • Path 5 Workbook

    • Path 5 Video Transcript

  • 7

    Sixth Path: Explore An Intimate Connection

    • Introduction

    • Exploration Dates

    • The Four Stages of XDs

    • Getting to Know Your Husband's Body

    • Common Questions

    • Summary & Action Steps

    • Path 6 Workbook

    • Path 6 Video transcript

  • 8

    Resources

    • XD Cheat Sheet

    • Permission To...

    • WIM Self-Assessment

    • Full WIM Workbook

    • Wanting It More Private Podcast Link